19. FEARS/SURVIVAL
I have been happily married for 4 years. A few months ago my husband started with a sort of obsession toward the world collapse, end of the world, Illuminati, 2012. He wants to save the world, break the system we are living in. However, he has been involved with a survival group that in my eyes, seem to be living a life of fear.
This obsession, as I call it, has been caused mainly by his brother who manipulates him and influences him in such a great degree. It is almost as if my husband has been "brainwashed", and even his attitude towards me has changed. This group seems to be stuck in the idea the world is coming to an end and they will be the very few survivors because they have "prepared.” I feel I am losing my husband and don’t know what to do.
a) Is his brother influence / manipulation due to the fact that they might be siamese souls in the spiritual world?
b) Has a promise been made? If so, what is it?
c) Should I let him go, and live this experience he chose, even though I strongly disagree and will experience great pain... or stay with him, perhaps it is my task in this life to help them ?
A. (Almine has previously answered that a 'twin in etheric' is not correct, does not exist.) You should discuss with him a possible compromise. Clearly, it is not that the brother is manipulating him but is playing on existent fears within your husband, not brainwashing. To live in such a group of fearful people would not make you happy long-term but there can be a compromise-for instance you could live in a bucolic location more away from the ‘fearful ones’ if possible- can he offer a quality life for you within this situation? To compromise the quality of your life for another is not possible but to create a mutual plan of give and take is a compromise that is win/win. Finances are also an issue-the differences need to be acknowledged no matter what. Can you afford to move and your husband can be fulfilled while you are still also happy and satisfied with the arrangement. You could share residence part of the year-they are possibilities if you feel that it works for both of you otherwise neither will be happy.
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